3 Surprisingly Simple Ways to Connect with your Child

We all have a desire to connect with our kids. These three simple tips, you will be able to better connect with your child.

We all have a desire to connect with our kids. These three simple tips, you will be able to better connect with your child.

3 Surprisingly Simple Ways to Connect with your Child

 


We all have a desire to be close to each one of our children. This connection is important for their growth and happiness. Kids that are more connected with their parents are more likely to want to do good and make their parents happy.

 

We all want to be close to our children. But, let’s be honest many times life gets in the way, our schedules are all busy, and it is hard to get that connection time that we both need. And then on top of that, we spend much of the time shaping and correcting them so they turn out to be AMAZING RESPONSIBLE ADULTS, which at times comes across as nagging, yelling or criticizing them for what they are or aren’t doing. Did you know research suggests for every negative interaction (yelling, criticizing, nagging) we need to have 5 Positive interactions to make up for it?

 

You might be thinking to yourself about now, how on Earth can I do it all so that my child feels loved and I can connect with them every day and make up for all the negative interactions? I will let you in on a little secret I learned….

 

Ready for it?

 

The more time you spend connecting with your kids each day, the stronger your bond will become, and in time you will start to see less and less negative interactions!

 

Don’t believe me?

 

With these Surprisingly Simple Steps, you will Start Connecting with your child on a whole new level and your connection will GROW!

 

3 Ways to Connect with Your Child

 

Touch

 

Kids need tangible, physical contact with a parent every day. In fact, they need at least 8 touches a day. When your kids are small and cuddly it seems like an easier task, but as they get older this can become more difficult. Think outside the box. Perhaps a small hug, high fives, pats on the back, secret handshakes, a touch on the arm, or moving hair out of their eyes.

 

Talk

 

When we classify talk, it’s not just any “small talk”. You need to engage your child in at least one worthwhile conversation every day. This talk needs to have eye to eye interaction! This is essential for all KIDS! So stop what you are doing, slow down, and look them in the eyes as you communicate.

 

Time

 

You want to spend 9 Meaningful Minutes A Day!

 

The first 3 minutes of the day, right after they wake up.

The 3 minutes after they walk in the door after school.

The last 3 minutes of the day, right before bed.

 

These 9 minutes of the day can have a powerful and significant influence on your child. But they can also be the most challenging minutes of the day. Start by shutting down electronics, getting off of the phone, and actively engaging your child for 3 minutes. Set the tone for your child by being positive, encouraging, and patient.

 

There it is. Nothing too crazy. Simply intentional and meaningful parenting.

 

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  • Alice Letters to my Daughter

    And congratulations, someone loved this post so much, they added it to the #BlogCrush linky! Feel free to collect your ‘I’ve been featured’ blog badge 🙂

    April 22, 2018 at 11:27 am Reply
    • Michele

      Thank you so much! I will do that!

      April 22, 2018 at 11:28 am Reply
  • Alice Letters to my Daughter

    Excellent advice, and it does seem so siple when put like that!

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  • Lisa Pomerantz

    What a wonderful post, Michelle. TY. Gosh, if we can’t find those 9 minutes, we shouldn’t be parents! xoxo #fortheloveofBLOG xo

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  • The Pramshed

    There’s some brilliant advice here and thank you for linking up at #fortheloveofBLOG. Claire x

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  • katecampion

    Love these simple steps. My kids have left home but even so, touch, time and communication are still key to keeping connected.

    March 18, 2018 at 2:40 am Reply
  • Dr. Elise Ho

    It does not have to be complicated, right? Kids just want to feel important and that should be a simple thing and a joyous thing as a parent.

    March 17, 2018 at 1:48 pm Reply
  • Mrs Mummy Harris (@mummyharris86)

    These are really good tips. I love talking to Ben even if he responds with jibberish. I’m also a lover of touching whether it be hand holding, stroking his neck when he puts his head on my knee. It really does help create a closer bond! #fortheloveofBLOG

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  • Michele Morin

    You’ve nailed that last “T.” Kids spell LOVE T-I-M-E, and even as mine get older (little men, really) they still want my eyes on them when they’re sharing a story.

    March 16, 2018 at 8:32 am Reply
  • 204Jillian

    You are so right, Michele. Talking and interacting with our children sure makes a difference. My daughter will become a teenager this year, and it’s getting harder by the day to really connect. I have noticed that being more intentional about what I say and how much we engage has made a positive difference in her attitude. Thanks for sharing. ~Jillian

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  • hampersandhiccups

    Great post again. My kids are still babies, but I’m sad for the day when I can no longer pick them up and snuggle them.
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    Katelynn, hampersandhiccups.com

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