There are times when my house is plagued with yelling and loud voices, that is why it’s time to start the no yelling parenting challenge & how you can too!
The No Yell Parenting Challenge
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According to my boys, I’m a yeller, I tend to think I speak in a voice that they can actually hear me in over their shenanigans. Last night though was a turning point for me, I decided that I might just be a yeller, even though I don’t want to be one!
It all started when Ty decided that we should have hot chocolate before bed. The kids, of course, went crazy as I was trying to get Tony ready for bed. They ran into the kitchen to make hot chocolate… Followed by the whipped cream getting squirted into each other’s mouths, followed by Talie spilling her hot chocolate all over the table and me having to clean it up one-handed. Then Colby brings out an Australian accent followed by talking about “Baby Jesus” from Talladega Nights… I admit I lost it; I yelled, and I sent them to bed!
I felt horrible for yelling, I felt sad for the night ending like that… Were they doing anything wrong? Not really, they are just typical 13 and 11-year-old boys having fun, right? And because of me, the peace was gone in our home. My yelling was the one who made it go away… Me, the one who learned about all the different parenting techniques in school, but yet can’t implement any of them when they are most needed.
I confess I have always blamed them for me yelling or raising my voice (I mean if they would have listened, to begin with 🙂 …), but really, it’s not them, it’s me… I am the one who needs to change and get better. The one who needs to have more control over my feelings. I am the one who needs to strive to have more peace in the home. Right then and there I decided it was time for a change!
The No Yelling Parenting Challenge
Last night I decided to not yell for one solid year! (except when appropriate: sporting events, playing outside having fun with the kids, if a crisis is happening and it will save someone’s life… you know those moments.) Lao Tzu says, “A Journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step.”
So I knew that the first step would be the hardest, which is why I am telling you all that I am making the commitment to not yell for one year! I am taking the no yelling Parenting Challenge! That’s right! No Yelling for 365 Days! There it is a step in the right direction! To be a more patient and loving mom. A step towards using those parenting techniques when I need them most!
Now you might be thinking, “Holy cow! What is her house like? Do they just yell all the time?” Of course, we don’t. There is lots of love. We have lots of peace and lots of harmony too! But there are those moments when we are plagued with loud voices that drive all this away. It’s at those times when I fall into Mom Funk, especially since our house has been plagued with sickness for the last 22 days and I have been sick with the flu or a double ear infection for two weeks now. It’s on those days that are too cold and windy to go outside and play so those dang little screens occupy the kids, until bedtime when they decide it is now time to get some energy out.
Come Join Me in the No Yelling Parenting Challenge
I’ll be honest… This journey is going to be hard… I’m going to fail a few times. Okay, probably many many times. But I do so much better when I am surrounded by others doing things with me. So with that being said, Who wants to join me in the no yelling parenting challenge? Who wants to change? Do you want more peace in their home? Who wants to share this journey with me? You certainly don’t have to do a year, like me, but I challenge you to set a certain amount of time to make your home a No Yelling Zone and see just what happens. Will you join me on this journey?
Together we can share stories, encourage one another, and just support one another in being better parents and bring more peace into our homes! Join the challenge today and comment on this post: “I’m in!” Let’s all offer each other encouragement and share stories along the way on our journeys to have more peaceful loving homes, so who’s with me?
Michele is a Family Life Educator. She is a mom to 5 kids and loves helping others strengthen their families! When she is not blogging she is spending time with her family and running around drinking Diet Coke trying to get everything done!