50 Sexy Texts Your Husband Wants you to Send!

Last Updated on May 11, 2023 by Michele Tripple

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It’s no lie that our husbands are thinking about being intimate every 9 seconds, so why not give him what he wants with these 50 sexy texts your husband wants you to send him!

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50 Sexy Texts Your Husbands Wants you to Send Today!

I love being married! Marriage to me is the greatest, most fun adventure I have ever been on! I remember when I first got married I was so shy and felt so awkward talking to my own husband about intimate things, but let me tell you that shyness quickly slipped away! And do you know what happened when it did? My husband and my relationship grew by leaps and bounds.

Having an intimate relationship with your spouse is so important because, let’s be honest ladies, our hubbies are always thinking about being intimate. Like all the time, every 9 or so seconds to be exact! They are craving us to be intimate right back! So, why not give them what they want right?

I know what you are thinking. I am too tired or too busy. Trust me I am right there with you! With two littles always pulling on me and older kids needing my attention too it gets hard. But what if I told you a simple sexy text will go a long way in his book and to strengthening your marriage?

In fact, what if I told you that your marriage needs intimate moments! So, what better way to do it than through text message while he is at work when you are waiting in line at the pickup line!

It's no lie that our husbands are thinking about being intimate every 9 seconds, so why not give him what he wants with these 50 sexy texts your husband wants you to send him!

So today we are sharing with you 50 dirty Texts that Your Husbands Want you to Send him!

**Please note! This is a more intimate post that talks about fun ways to spice up your relationship through texting! If you easily get embarrassed with the thought of talking about spicing up your extracurricular activities in the bedroom, this might be a great post to skip over **

It's no lie that our husbands are thinking about being intimate every 9 seconds, so why not give him what he wants with these 50 sexy texts your husband wants you to send him!

A few reminders before we share with you all these dirty texts!

  1. If you have older kids like I do, be sure you know how to delete pics and messages off your phone. No one needs their kids to know about their intimate relationship!
  2. Really know your spouse before you send one of these texts to him. Sometimes relationships are more conservative, be respectful of this when choosing the messages you send. Don’t send one you know will totally offend your spouse by being too risque.
  3. Dirty talk with your husband is normal and ok as long as both parties are okay with it.

If you’re not sending sexy text messages to your husband you are missing out on a great way to connect with him on a whole new level!

It's no lie that our husbands are thinking about being intimate every 9 seconds, so why not give him what he wants with these 50 sexy texts your husband wants you to send him!

Sending sexy texts is not just for the newly married couple, it is for everyone! So we are giving all kinds of ideas you can send right now, so what are you waiting for? Grab your phone and send a sexy text to your hubby! Don’t forget to tell us how it goes!

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50 Sexy Texts to Send Your Husband

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Have an Emoji

Everyone loves emojis so why not use them to tell your husband you are in the mood! Think of it as a secret code. Find an emoji that when your husband sees only means one thing! Yep, he will be one happy camper when he gets home tonight!

Bitmoji App

Bitmojis are still fairly popular, so why not use the romantic bitmojis to convey you are in the mood tonight?!

GIF

It's no lie that our husbands are thinking about being intimate every 9 seconds, so why not give him what he wants with these 50 sexy texts your husband wants you to send him!

I admit, I love a good GIF and there are some good ones out there! So, search for what you are looking for and hit send! Easy, fast, and totally effective, trust me I know from experience on this one!

Love Text for Him from the Heart

Sometimes you just want your husband to know you love him, and a romantic message for him will do that!    

It's no lie that our husbands are thinking about being intimate every 9 seconds, so why not give him what he wants with these 50 sexy texts your husband wants you to send him!
  • When you’re around my whole body knows it!
  • I still get butterflies every time I see you, so let’s flutter tonight!
  • Wish you were here with me right now!
  • I’m so glad I found you!

More Ideas for a Romantic Message for Him

  • I’m just over here making your favorite dinner, no biggie! Can’t wait for you to be home!
  • If you asked me to marry you again today, I’d say, “I do” all over again.
  • I love how you love me. Thanks for always being there for me!
  • All the little things you do, make me love you even more!
  • I don’t say it enough, but I want you to know how much I LOVE you!

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Flirty/Fun Texts to Send Your Husband

You know those days where you want to be a little more flirty with your husband while you are apart, well here are some of the best flirty texts to send him!

  • Let’s go on a date tonight. I think you’ll like how it ends!
  • Send the song clip of Boys 2 Men, “I’ll Make Love to You.”
  • Make up a sexy nickname and always refer to him as that when you text him. My husband’s name is Sexypants!
  • Can’t wait to kiss you later.
  • Want to put the kids to bed early tonight?

More Flirty Texts to Send Your Man

Sending your man flirty text messages helps him know that you are thinking about him all day long.

  • Let’s have a happily ever after tonight! 😉
  • Bedroom Olympics tonight? Maybe you can win a gold medal!
  • I can’t wait for tonight… I am excited just thinking about it!
  • Wanna guess what I am thinking about right now?
  • Skirt or tight jeans. Your choice.
  • Wanna see my boobs? ( . )( . )

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Risque Texts to Send Your Husband

Ever have those days where you want to rock your husband’s world? Well here are all those risque texts that he is sure to love!

It's no lie that our husbands are thinking about being intimate every 9 seconds, so why not give him what he wants with these 50 sexy texts your husband wants you to send him!
  • Your wish is my command tonight, starting at (insert time).
  • I can’t wait to spoil you tonight.
  • What should I wear to bed tonight? Your choice?
  • I was thinking about having you for dinner tonight. What do you think?
  • Sorry we had a fight! Let’s settle it like adults. In the bedroom. Naked.
  • I have a little sexual tension, can you help me?
  • I love when you use dirty talk. Let’s practice tonight.
  • What’s the hottest thing I can do for you when I see you?
  • How can I pleasure you, Mr. (insert last name)?
  • What’s your favorite color underwear on me… Just curious, you know for later.
  • You know how hot it would be if you randomly got turned on at work just thinking of me. Just saying.

Freaky Text Messages

Sometimes you need some freaky text messages to really bring things to the next level.

  • I’m slightly turned on just thinking of you.
  • Dirty talk is a major turn on, just saying.
  • I loved when you (fill in the blank) last night.
  • What’s that one thing you want me to do for you that will make you never forget tonight?
  • If we were in a long distance relationship how would we keep things spicy?
  • I wish you were here with me right now. Naked.
  • Blow job at 8?
  • I love our sex life.
  • I was just thinking about my favorite sex positions wishing you were here.
  • I’m buying lingerie right now and need a second opinion, wanna help me?
  • Wanna try a new sex position tonight…
  • Try not thinking about me in (insert outfit that he loves)… it’s not appropriate while you are at work!
  • You + Me Tonight = Bam shaka wham wham!
  • Is there a certain sex position you think about at work?
  • You know that day you rocked my world? Well, let’s do it again tonight!

A Few More Hot Love Messages to Send!  

  • I love your (insert your favorite body part!)
  • Let’s be sure to lock the door tonight!
  • Fill in the blank. I wish you did more (fill in the blank) to me.
  • Shower at 8?
  • Let’s get it on!
  • I want you, like right now…
  • I am so glad we aren’t in a long distance relationship I need more nights like last night.
  • You looked super hot when you left this morning… I bet you will look even hotter later with our door closed and locked.
  • Fill in the blank… I love your
  • I may not be wearing any underwear right now.
  • I’ve got tonight’s coupon all picked out for tonight!

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Say it With A Picture!

Sometimes a picture is worth a thousand words and your sex life needs some visuals. So, here are some AWESOME ideas for the perfect picture to send your husband in a text message!

  • Send a picture of two different lingerie options and ask him which one you should wear tonight.
  • Send a picture of you winking at him.
  • Send a picture of you with a seductive look.
  • Send a selfie with you with a really happy face with the caption, “Want to know what I’m thinking about right now?”
  • Send a picture of lingerie and ask, “Want me to wear this tonight?”
  • Send a cleavage picture and say, “More where that came from tonight!”
  • Of course, there are many more options for pics, but we will leave it right there since my parents and my kids look at my blog! Hi, Mom 😉 Just be creative, have fun, but remember to delete it off your phone!

There you have it! 50 sexy texts to send your husband that he is going to love!

Do you have more awesome dirty texts to add to the list? Comment with them below! Remember, marriage is supposed to be fun, so have some fun and use texting as an easy way to connect with your spouse on an intimate level throughout the day! Happy Sexting, oh I mean Texting!

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It's no lie that our husbands are thinking about being intimate every 9 seconds, so why not give him what he wants with these 50 sexy texts your husband wants you to send him!

10 thoughts on “50 Sexy Texts Your Husband Wants you to Send!”

  1. Thank you so much for the sexy text’s page you wrote I’m so grateful for you my husband and I have been together since we were 17yrs old we are now 48yrs and we have 10 children and 15 grandbabies and we need to keep the spark in our marriage and this was a HUGH HELP SO THANK YOU SO MUCH AND YOU HAVE A BLESSED GREAT DAY KEEP UP THE GREAT WORK YOUR DOING

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  2. Such fun ideas! You are totally right- the content depends on your spouse. Making sure to follow through will be the challenge for me! Other fun ideas could be: make sure to save enough energy for tonight; skip dinner and go straight to dessert?; remember the time when …

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  3. Thanks for the great ideas. Ladies, marriage is so important and letting your husband know you’re thinking about him through the day let’s him know how important your relationship really is to you.

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    • I totally agree, Rebecca! Making sure your husband knows that he is valued and loved is super important. I love being able to send a simple text to show my husband how much I love him.

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  4. That’s for making this a thing! It’s something we tend to turn towards when he was deployed or is away on a business trip. It’s important to keep the romance alive

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    • Thanks! We love helping couples strengthen their relationships! Marriage is so important, so it’s definitely something to work on each and every day. Husbands love getting a sexy text! 😍

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