Kids, parenting, Parenting is hard

How to Lose a Pacifier in Just 3 Days!


Each toddler has that one thing that they love more than anything in the entire world!
For some it’s their blanket, for others it’s a favorite stuffed animal, and then there are those kids that love a certain toy…

I wish my daughter loved one of these things that I wouldn’t mind her always having with her, but it wasn’t… My daughters favorite thing just happened to be her PACIFIER!

To  say her pacifier was her favorite thing  is a huge understatement! I think she would choose her pacifier over food if she had too; in fact there were times when she would take her pacifier out just long enough to stick a piece of food in her mouth and then she would shove her pacifier right back in. We could not go anywhere without making sure she had a pacifier as well as me having two spares just in case she lost one. It was bad! My 2 ½ year old was addicted to a pacifier and I had NO IDEA what to do about it, until one Wednesday at our Wandering Wednesday link party, where bloggers come and share great blog posts, I found an idea from Have Twins First on how to ditch the pacifiers in just three days! It was an idea she found here called Bye Bye Binkie: Ending the Pacifier Habit. I read her post and sort of laughed because I thought to myself, “YOU HAVE NO IDEA JUST HOW ADDICTED MY TODDLER IS… I mean that thing is in her mouth for at least 20 hours a day,” but I decided it wouldn’t hurt to try it out!


How You Lose the Pacifier in 3 Days

Step 1

From what I read from Have Twins First and Bye Bye Binkie, the process starts three days before you actually take the pacifiers away. You do this by starting the conversation about the pacifiers going away.

So 3 days before, I prepped my daughter telling her how big she was getting and how she could do such fun things. She of course agreed that she was so big. I then said there were babies that really needed her pacifiers because they were little and that they really needed those pacifiers… She happily agreed (Yes, I was still laughing inside thinking this will never work). We had this conversation 5-6 times a day for the next three days. Each conversation lasted less than 30 seconds.


Step 2

It was the big day, Day 3, the day I had been dreading… I went through the whole house and found all the pacifiers because I knew if she had to find them she would have a major meltdown when it was time to give them away.,Then  I only needed to get the one she had in her mouth! I distracted her with some candy and took the last pacifier and shoved them in the bottom of a drawer in a dresser so she would never be able to find them.

Then it happened, she asked for her pacifier! I told her that we gave them to the babies. This satisfied her! What?! Was this working? Throughout the day she continued to ask for her pacifier and I continued to tell her that we gave them to the babies.

No Pacifier at Bedtime? Send Help!

We made it through the day without any major meltdowns because we didn’t have a pacifier and I was relieved! We got ready for bed with our normal routine. We sang and gave kisses, and then it happened… She asked for her pacifier. I reminded her that the babies had it and she lost it… There was no comforting herShe sobbed…I told her the babies were so happy and she made the babies happy and I kissed her again and left. She cried herself to sleep that night and my heart was breaking… I was so tempted to go give her a pacifier, but I didn’t!  

The next morning she woke up and sadly asked me for her pacifier, I reminded her that the babies had them now. Throughout the day she continued to ask, but less frequently than the day before at bedtime it was similar to the day before, but not as bad or for as long. After a few days she was no longer asking for it during the day, unless she got hurt doing something. Nap time and nights became easier too, and got to the point where she was laying down without crying.

It’s been one month of no pacifiers and our life is so much better without pacifiers! Our toddler is happier (I never thought that would happen!), she talks more, and plays more. Honestly taking her pacifier away was the hardest thing I have had to do as a mom with her. There were many times where I thought, “this isn’t worth it”, or “if I gave it to her she would just stop crying”, and many other tempting thoughts, but I am SO glad that I was strong enough to stick to the plan because we are so much better off without Pacifiers!

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I know that it is heartbreaking to take their pacifier away for them and for you, but I promise if you stick to the plan you will be pacifier free and you will no longer be searching for the lost pacifiers under the bed at two o’clock in the morning!





Blogmas, Christmas

Getting Toddlers Involved with this Simple DIY

Welcome to Blogmas 2017! Today we are joined by Yvan with some great ideas to get your toddlers involved! Visit her at Yvan Agno 

It’s that time of year again: the time where we start thinking about ticking off that gift list, Christmas to-dos, and how we’ll be decorating for Christmas this year. This year, I came up with two little projects to help get my toddler involved in our holiday preparations. The great thing about these projects is I found everything I needed to make them at our local dollar store. I don’t know about you but I find the holidays to be the easiest time in the year to spend so much money and not even realize it. So being able to create something mostly from scratch and save money doing it is something I enjoy doing.

The first one I have for you here is a Candy Cup Décor.


I bought a small Christmas tree to decorate our bedroom last year, and with help from my daughter, I will be adding something extra this year. My three-year-old loves to help, and loves to be involved however she can. Imagine how excited she got when I asked her to help me put together a simple decorative add-on to our bedroom which she can easily get to whenever she wants.

What you’ll need:

A glass cup

Multi-coloured chocolates (optional)

Shredded decorative paper filler

I started by having my daughter organize the Hershey’s Kisses by color. Please keep in mind that you don’t need to use chocolates. Decorative beads / balls / spheres would work as well. I just chose chocolates because we love them and let’s be real, they will not really take up any space in storage after the holidays, especially in our house!

I then proceeded to have her put the shredded paper at the bottom of the cup. I happened to have a package arrive with these in them so I didn’t need to purchase them at all, which was great. I added these at the bottom to keep the chocolates from going all the way down at the bottom of the cup.

After that, I asked her to fill in the cup with chocolates starting from which color she likes. She kept on asking me when she could have some chocolates to eat and I kept on telling her soon. 🙂

This little candy cup décor can be placed in any room in the house, provided ofcourse no one is allergic to what is in the cup if you do decide to put something edible in it.


The next project I had for my daughter are homemade Christmas tags. Yes, I know that some store sells a pack of tags for really cheap, but I find that homemade ones says a lot more regardless of how simple the end result is.



What you’ll need:

Sketchbook or construction paper


Christmas themed stickers




I decided to use a sketchbook because my daughter can always use the rest for her painting and other art-related endeavours. I started by measuring tag sized rectangles on a sheet of sketchbook paper. I marked the pieces I wouldn’t be using with an ‘x’ so my daughter understands that we won’t be using those pieces.

After cutting the pieces, I had her place stickers on one side of the tag leaving enough room to put holiday messages on such as “Happy Holidays”, “Merry Christmas” or the classic “To: and Fr:”.



Let me tell you, she loved every single bit of making these two items. She knew she can get into the chocolate cup which I placed in our room with my small tree. In addition to that, she was very proud of herself for being able to create the Christmas tags which will be used on presents.

There you have it! Two Christmas DIYs on a budget. I believe I barely spent $15 on everything. Hopefully, these projects help in getting your toddler be more involved with your holiday preparations.


Yvan is a soon to be mother of two who enjoys reading, writing, pocket scrapbooking, coffee and tea. She currently resides in Canada with her husband and daughter enjoying all the festivities and snow the holiday season brings. Her blog is home to her thoughts regarding everything which she finds interesting and enjoyable. You can find her blog at Yvan Agno