When you are trying to concveive a baby the most difficult time is the two weeks of wondering if you are pregnant or not! Here are 5 things to think about!
When trying to conceive, there is always a two-week (or thereabouts) lull when you might be pregnant, but you can’t confirm it. This two-week period can be extremely difficult to cope with when trying to conceive; you’re in a state of suspended animation, wondering if you’re about to embark on the most significant journey of your life, or whether you’re going to need to cross your fingers for next month instead.
So, while you wait to know if you are pregnant or not, let’s look deeper into this two-week window and what it might mean for you…
5 Things to Things About During the Two Week Waiting Period While You Are Trying to Conceive
Don’t Expect to “Feel Pregnant”
Many women state that they knew they were pregnant because they just felt pregnant. If you don’t feel this during those the two-week wait, that’s not a bad sign. Remember, there are women who reach the point of giving birth without even realizing they’re pregnant at all, so there’s no definitive feeling that every woman experiences!
Be Aware of the Early Signs
Be aware of the early signs, but don’t obsess over them. Certainly while trying to conceive you may experience implantation bleeding and cramping, you also might not. Many women, know to look out for bleeding and cramping, so they find themselves feeling incredibly disappointed if these symptoms don’t present themselves during the two-week wait.
It’s important to try and keep a sense of perspective, however. While some women do have these early symptoms, many don’t. Although difficult, it’s important to try and remind yourself that a lack of bleeding and cramps doesn’t mean you aren’t pregnant. In fact, it may help you to know that…
Most Women Feel Completely Normal During the Two-Week Wait While Trying to Conceive
During the two-week wait, you may feel completely fine. In fact, you will feel 100% healthy and normal. It’s important not to expect ‘classic’ pregnancy symptoms. These include signs include nausea and sore breasts during the two-week wait. Sometimes these symptoms take a number of weeks to manifest. So if you’re feeling disheartened by the fact you feel healthy and normal, don’t be! It’s just too early for your body to be reacting to your pregnancy yet.
Consider Small Lifestyle Changes
During the two-week wait, it may be worth making a small lifestyle change. The kind of lifestyle changes you would make if you were pregnant. Opt for small switches such as limiting your intake of alcohol and caffeine, while avoiding food that you shouldn’t eat when pregnant.
Some women dislike making these changes, as they feel they are tempting fate. The matter is entirely at your discretion, however; if necessary, discuss with your doctor what might be the right approach for you personally.
The two-week wait between ovulation and when your period would be due is always tough to cope with. You may find yourself struggling to focus on other tasks wishing you can take a test. If you particularly find the wait difficult to cope with, then you may find it beneficial to speak to someone. They will be able to advise you on methods of managing the time. They can even provide an outlet for your thoughts, fears, and feelings of anticipation. So explore this option if you feel it would be beneficial for you.
Michele is a Family Life Educator. She is a mom to 5 kids and loves helping others strengthen their families! When she is not blogging she is spending time with her family and running around drinking Diet Coke trying to get everything done!