The most common question married couples ask when it comes to their relationship is What are some fun ideas to spice up the bedroom? Well, we are sharing simple and fun ways on how to heat things up in the bedroom!
How Do You Keep Things Spicy in Bed?
Many of our readers are always asking me, “Michele, how do we keep things spicy in the bedroom?” My answer is usually the same, “You have to keep it fun and interesting!”
This is usually followed by the question, “Do you have any fun ideas to spice up the bedroom?” At this point, blushingly I say, “Oh I have all kinds of ideas on how to heat things up in the bedroom!”
So, with Valentine’s Day just around the corner, I thought it was the perfect time to share fun ideas to spice up the bedroom with our spouse along with some romantic bedroom ideas for married couples as well!
Who’s ready for some fun ideas to spice up the bedroom?
How to Heat Things Up in the Bedroom?
Before we talk about fun ideas to spice up the bedroom let’s first talk about how to heat things up in the bedroom and it actually starts before you hop into bed!
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One of the best ways to spice up the bedroom is to go shopping! Buy new lingerie, update your bras and panties! Make your husband go wow with your new purchases! Step outside your Mom Life Comfort zone.
Wanna spice up the bedroom? Then prepare yourself and the room! You know, shave your legs, splash on some perfume. Then head into the bedroom, light the candles and put on some romantic music!
Bathing can be so relaxing, but when you do it with your spouse it brings your intimacy to a whole new level. Just sitting relaxing together can really spice up your relationship! While you are at it, add a romantic bath bomb for an even more intimate time!
Talk about Sex!
Did you know talking about sex gets everyone in the mood? So start talking with your hubby about sex. Drop hints about things you like or be bold and tell him exactly what you like! Trust me he wants to know these things! If you are having trouble getting the conversation started, grab our couples conversation cards!
Sext Text Your Spouse
Sometimes spicing up the bedroom starts with picking up the phone. Yes, that’s right! Sending a sexy text is a perfect way to spice up the bedroom! Why? Well, guess what? Sending sexy messages back and forth builds anticipation and excitement! So go ahead pick up the phone and try it!
Make it a Priority!
Sometimes when we want to spice up our love life with our husband we have to make it a priority. So evaluate how to do this! Perhaps it is scheduling sex or putting it on your to-do list or maybe it is as simple as making sure the kids get into bed on time. Whatever it is, be sure you make it a priority.
So now that we know how to heat things up in the bedroom before we get there, how do we heat things up in the bedroom once we are there?
Fun Ideas to Spice Up the Bedroom
Set the Mood
Setting the mood can be simple. Light the candles, turn on your favorite romantic playlist, and don’t forget to lock the door!
Come to Bed in Style
Ladies, I am just going to say it, our husbands LOVE IT when we come to bed dressed up! This might mean new lingerie, maybe it is one of his dress shirts without anything underneath! Whatever it is your husband will love it and those sparks will fly!
Put on Some Makeup/ Curl Your Hair
Okay, so I am not one to get all dressed fancy on a daily occasion, but let me tell you, ladies, this works! When you are heading to bed, rather than taking off your makeup and throwing your hair in a ponytail, do the opposite! Fix your makeup and curl your hair! This Urban Decay Smoky Eye Eyeshadow is an awesome after dark makeup! Then go hop into bed and you can almost guarantee that there will be some action happening!
Let him Redeem a Naughty Coupon
Husbands like to do new things, but sometimes we are just too tired to think of new things to do. But guess what? This Naughty Coupon book is perfect because it is packed with 52 great ideas to really spice up the bedroom! So you need to grab this naughty coupon book like now! And as a bonus, it is super affordable too! USE CODE COP20 to save 20% off it!
Whipped Cream and Cherries!
A way to really spice things up is by using whip cream! One of you places the whipped cream wherever they want on their body, and then their spouse gets to lick it off! It’s a win-win for everyone!
Blindfold One another!
Play Bedroom Games!
Going to bed naked is so simple and adds a ton of spice to your marriage, but so often we don’t do it! Why is that? So rather than put on your baggy t-shirt and flannel PJ bottoms sleep naked! As an added bonus when you go to bed naked you have less laundry!
So often we so no. This is quickly followed by, “I’m too busy!” “I’m too tired.” “Aunt Flo is here.” But let’s change that and say YES more often!
Try New Things Together
You and your husband love to try new things outside the bedroom, so why not inside the bedroom? To really spice up the bedroom with your hubby try a new position or maybe a new toy. When you experience new things together it helps you grow closer as a couple!
Whether you or your spouse want to admit it or not, everyone has a fantasy! So, why not discover what each other’s fantasy is and try it out one night!
Grab some seductive bedroom costumes and role play because everyone loves to pretend!
Sometimes when we want to spice up the bedroom it is as simple as telling him what you want! Do you want more foreplay? Do you want to experiment with other things? Talk to him and tell him! Chances are he is open to doing them!
Face Your Fears!
When we really want to spice up the bedroom sometimes that means stepping outside our comfort zone you have gotten accustomed to. It’s time to face your fears and the unknown! So venture outside your comfort zone and see what can happen!
Ok, news flash! Sex is supposed to be fun! So make sure you are having fun doing it! Be the person your hubby fell in love with! So often we can get overwhelmed with life and weighed down. This causes us to just go through the motions. Don’t do this when it comes to intimacy with your husband! Add some spice and have fun!
There you have it, fun ideas to spice up the bedroom that are easy to do and will bring your intimacy with your spouse to a whole new level!
What do you do to spice up the bedroom tell us in the comments?
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Michele is a Family Life Educator. She is a mom to 5 kids and loves helping others strengthen their families! When she is not blogging she is spending time with her family and running around drinking Diet Coke trying to get everything done!