50 Quality Time Love Language Ideas

Last Updated on March 1, 2021 by Michele Tripple

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What is the quality time love language and how can you show love to someone in your life who connects through time spent together? Learn everything you need to know here, plus 50 quality time love language ideas too!

The Quality Time Love Language

I’m a textbook quality time love language kind of girl! With my kids, my spouse, my friends, or whoever I have a relationship with, there’s nothing more important to me than spending time together!

But it’s taken me a while to realize that not everyone is like that! Everyone wants to spend time with people that they love, but not everyone values time over affirmations, gifts, service, or touch. 

That’s where the 5 love languages come in!

The 5 Love Languages

Love languages are a breakdown of all those different ways that we give and receive love in our relationships! 

There are five love languages that you might relate to. They are quality time, acts of service, words of affirmation, gift-giving and receiving, and physical touch.

The average person enjoys many different expressions of love in their relationships, but there are likely one or two love languages that you prefer when connecting with someone.

And since we all have a different love language, navigating relationships with different dynamics can get a little tricky!

Quality Time Love Language

So what is quality time? 

Quality time might be one of the most common love languages, or at the least, the most commonly talked about! 

Time spent with people you love is really important. Time helps you learn about each other, improve your communication, and strengthen bonds. 

And though the extrovert in me would love to spend tons of time with my friends and family, quality time isn’t about how much time you spend together. It’s all about HOW you spend that time together. 

If your love language is quality time, then how you spend that time together is probably super important to you!

How to Show Love To Someone With a Quality Time Love Language

Showing love to someone whose love language is quality time is really just about being aware of your time together. It may not feel natural at first if you have a different love language, but a great start is just paying attention to where you focus is when you are together.

Are you showing them that you want to be there? Are you listening to them? Are you avoiding distractions? These are all good questions to ask!

They also may mention to you that they are missing you or needing some extra time.

Take this seriously! If they are asking you for more quality time, chances are that they really need it to feel more connected to you. 

If you are the one who has a quality time love language, here are a few tips that can help you meet your needs in relationships:

  • Schedule time. Make sure that your routine includes some built-in time together. If it’s a priority for you, move things around so that it fits in your schedule!
  • Take something off their list. If the other person is pretty busy, try to take something off their plate. They’ll appreciate the gesture, and you’ll have more time to spend together!
  • Make your needs known. Tell your loved ones that you need time together! Especially if they have a different love language, they may not know that you need some more quality time.

Quality Time Love Language Ideas

Still stumped? Here’s some great quality time love language ideas to get the ball rolling!

  1. Play a board game together
  2. Go for a walk
  3. Get a babysitter for a date night
  4. Spend an hour of no-screen time together
  5. Go on a drive
  6. Stay up late talking
  7. Join in while they are doing dishes, laundry, etc.
  8. Focus on eye contact 
  9. Go bowling together
  10. Play Would You Rather
  11. Make plans to spend lunch together during the week
  12. Send them a text to let them know you miss them
  13. Cook dinner together
  14. Plan a surprise staycation
  15. Put off something on your to-do list to free up time
  16. Get tickets for a local show or movie
  17. Do a puzzle together
  18. Start working on a house project together
  19. Work out together
  20. Make a bucket list of things to do together
  21. Take a class together
  22. Set up a special meal and get dressed up
  23. Make a no phone pact in bed, at dinner, or another agreed time
  24. Make an effort to not cancel plans together
  25. Play card games
  26. Put together a scavenger hunt
  27. Start planning a trip
  28. Go camping together
  29. Paint portraits of each other
  30. Sign up for a date night subscription box
  31. Schedule a weekly date night
  32. Go on a road trip
  33. Make a scrapbook or photo book of memories
  34. Sit together while watching your favorite show
  35. Try out a new hobby together
  36. Plan an at home date night
  37. Make up for it when you have to cancel plans
  38. Read a book to each other
  39. Set a time each month to do a volunteer project
  40. Have an at-home dance party
  41. Play 20 questions
  42. Cuddle
  43. Make together time a part of your nightly routine
  44. Start a vision board together
  45. Take a vacation day to do something together
  46. Have a movie marathon
  47. Take turns giving massages
  48. Learn a new skill together
  49. Come up with a handshake 
  50. Go on a retreat

To learn more about the 5 love languages, make sure you check out these other posts!

How to Use the 5 Love Languages in Your Relationships

All About The Acts of Service Love Language (Plus 50 Examples!)

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