100+ Flirty Questions to Ask a Girl To Help you Connect

Last Updated on February 27, 2021 by Michele Tripple

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When you like a girl and you want her to subtly know that by flirting with her. But maybe you are scratching your head on how to do this? Use these flirty questions to ask a girl to help get the conversation started! These questions will let her know you are into her and make her blush with excitement!

Okay, guys! This one is just for you! You like a girl and you have no idea how to let her know you like her, so you try all kinds of tactics none of them that seem to work so now you are stumped and probably searching the internet for “how do I get a girl to like me?” And perhaps even stumbled upon this fantastic list of flirty questions to ask a girl. 

Did you know that asking the right flirty question will get her blushing and thinking long and hard about you? Which is exactly what you want right?

Take these flirty questions to help get to know her better and also get her to open up about how she feels about you! Perhaps your girl crush will soon become your girlfriend! 

These questions are perfect to use as conversation starters over text or in person! 

100+ Flirty Questions to ask a girl

With this list of flirty questions to ask a girl, you want to make sure you choose the right questions! If you are just starting out talking to her, choose some basic questions to begin. As your relationship/ friendship develops dive a little deeper with some of the questions you ask. And of course, be sure that you don’t just keep asking her question after question. Use them sparingly along with some general questions to ask a girl you like! By doing this your realtionhsip will flourish!

  1. Has anyone ever told you how beautiful you are?
  2. Do you like kissing?
  3. What is your biggest turn-on?
  4. I am crazy about you, do you know that?
  5. What would you say if I told you I loved your smile?
  6. What are three things that always make you laugh?
  7. What is your biggest turn-off?
  8. Do you like to be held?
  9. What turns you on?
  10. What is the most attractive thing to you?
  11. What is the type you go for?
  12. First kiss on the cheek or the mouth?
  13. What would you say if I told you I wanted to go on an adventure with you?
  14. Who do you have a crush on right now?
  15. What would you say if I said I had a crush on you?
  16. Want me to tell you a secret?
  17. Do you believe in love at first sight?
  18. What would you say if I told you I really liked your [fill in the blank]?
  19. What makes you nervous around the opposite sex?
  20. What is your love language?
  21. Are you attracted to me?
  22. What is something you have done in public that you probably shouldn’t have done?
  23. Do you like being in a committed relationship?
  24. Would you ever make the first move?
  25. How do you let a guy know you want to be kissed?
  26. Have you ever been in love?
  27. When was your first kiss?
  28. Do you know that I like you?
  29. What is your perfect guy?
  30. Wanna make plans with me tonight?
  31. Who is your favorite actor?
  32. Are you a fighter or a lover?
  33. Do you fall in love fast?
  34. What was the last show you binge-watched?
  35. If you only had 24 hours to live what would you do?
  36. What is the perfect date?
  37. What do you love most about yourself?
  38. What do you like about me?
  39. What superpower do you wish you had?
  40. Do you like to flirt with guys?
  41. Do you worry about the future?
  42. How do you envision married life?
  43. What is your obsession?
  44. What is your biggest pet peeve?
  45. Are you a hopeless romantic?
  46. Do you like physical touch?
  47. How do you feel about public display of affection?
  48. What do you want to do to change the world?
  49. Where do you want to be in 5 years? 10 years?
  50. Are you someone who likes to snuggle?
  51. Would you let me kiss you?
  52. Do you have any deal-breakers when it comes to dating?
  53. What is the best thing about your childhood that you will never forget?
  54. Do you like receiving compliments?
  55. Who is your celebrity crush?
  56. What do you want out of a relationship?
  57. Do you want a  guy to tell you I love you first?
  58. How did you become so beautiful on the inside and the outside?
  59. Do you miss me right now? (Perfect in a text conversation)
  60. What is one thing you could do forever?
  61. If we were going to watch your favorite movie, what movie would we watch?
  62. What do you love most about life?
  63. We have 30 minutes to spend together. What do we do?
  64. In 5 words describe yourself to a friend.
  65. In 5 words describe me to one of your friends.
  66. What is your biggest struggle in life? (Perfect question to show compassion to her!)
  67. What do you cherish more than anything?
  68. Who was your first crush?
  69. If you had to have a nickname what would it be?
  70. What do you wish your nickname was?
  71. What is the thing you want most for the future?
  72. Are you into guys that show emotion or always seem like they are the tough guy?
  73. Do you like texting or talking on the phone better?
  74. What is the perfect first date?
  75. Do you like facial hair on guys?
  76. What is more important money or someone that treats you amazing?
  77. What are you most passionate about?
  78. Would you prefer small groups of friends or big parties?
  79. What does the perfect proposal look like to you?
  80. Bad guy or nice guy?
  81. What is your favorite thing to do with a boyfriend?
  82. Looks or brains?
  83. Do you like video chatting?
  84. Early mornings or late nights?
  85. What is the best pick-up line you have ever been told?
  86. You don’t realize how [insert phrase ie. beautiful, smart, etc] you are, do you?
  87. What’s the worst date you have ever been on?
  88. What are the top 5 songs in your playlist right now?
  89. What are the top 5 things on your bucket list?
  90. Where would you want our first kiss to take place?
  91. What is love to you?
  92. Do you daydream about us?
  93. Are you a rule follower or a rule breaker?
  94. What are 2 things you couldn’t live without?
  95. What is the most important thing when it comes to starting a relationship?
  96. If I was arrested what would you think the reason was?
  97. Are you spontaneous or a planner?
  98. What’s your biggest fear?
  99. Do you like to be given flowers?
  100. Do you want to live in a big city or a small town?
  101. What is the most romantic thing you did for someone else?
  102. Have you ever had a crush on someone you shouldn’t have had a crush on?
  103. Which one making out or cuddling?
  104. Have you ever had a crush on someone you have never met?
  105. What is the craziest date idea you can come up with?
  106. What couple do you look to and go I want that kind of relationship?
  107. Have you ever been in love?
  108. Do you like it when I flirt with you?
  109. What would you do with $5000?
  110. What is one thing you want to change about yourself?
  111. What is the thing that is holding you back from achieving your goals?
  112. What is my most attractive quality to you?
  113. If you could only live with one person for the rest of your life starting now, who would it be?
  114. What is the craziest thing you have done for someone else?
  115. Do you like to be single or would you like to always be in a relationship?
  116. Would you rather date one semi good looking guy or one that is hot but a total bad boyfriend?
  117. What would you say if I was moving away tomorrow?
  118. What would an entire day together look like?

There you have it, the best flirty questions to ask a girl! What did you think about these flirty questions to ask a girl? Thankfully there are plenty of flirty questions to help the conversation flowing for hours! 

Would you add any questions to the list? Share in the comments so that we can add them to the list! 

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