150 Questions to Ask a Girl You Like (over Text / in RL)

Last Updated on February 20, 2021 by Michele Tripple

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Are you wanting to know how to talk to that girl you like, but just don’t know how or what to say? These questions to ask a girl can help you get the conversation flowing in no time!

How to talk to a girl

Talking to a girl you like can be one of the most fantastic experiences of your life, but at the same time it can be super intimidating, especially if you really like her! Your heart is pumping fast and you haven’t got a clue what to say or do. And you probably have a bunch of insecurities racing through your head like:

  • What if there is a lull in the conversation?
  • What if you don’t have anything in common?

What if she thinks you are… [fill in the blank]?

The possibilities are endless what you might be thinking. 

Pretty much every guy and girl struggles with how to talk to someone of the opposite sex. The key is figuring out how to make them want to talk to you and you do this through your personality and great conversation. 

The first thing you need to do is approach the girl you like. Introduce yourself if she doesn’t know who you are. If you are texting her, grab one of our fun conversation starters over text ideas. 

While she responds, listen to what she has to say. Acknowledge her and make it about her. Understand her point of view and validate her points. 

Once you get to this point you want to keep the conversation going and you can do this by utilizing some of these great questions to ask a girl. With a variety of different topics and questions they are sure to help keep the conversation rolling as you get to know one another.

Of course we have an awesome list of questions to ask a guy to go with this list as well that you might want to grab too! 

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150 Questions to Ask a Girl

These questions are perfect to ask a girl anytime anywhere! 

Flirty Questions to ask a girl (perfect for high schoolers)

We have all been there. You want to flirt with a girl, but not quite sure how… These flirty questions to ask a girl will let her know you are into her in the most appropriate way.

  • What three things always make you smile?
  • What would you say if I asked you to dinner?
  • What do you look for in a guy?
  • What gives you butterflies in your stomach?
  • What does “love” mean to you?
  • Have you ever told someone who is not a family member that you love them?
  • What did you think of me when you first saw me?
  • What is the most romantic thing anyone has ever done for you?
  • What makes you feel beautiful?
  • How would you describe yourself?
  • What do you like to do to relax?
  • What are your plans for the next 24 hours?
  • Do you prefer going out or having a relaxing night in?
  • How can you tell when a guy is interested in you?
  • How important are your friends’ opinions about your relationships?
  • What is something that would make you instantly fall in love with someone?
  • How would you react if I told you that I like you?
  • What do you like most about me?
  • Who should make the first move, the guy or the girl?
  • What’s more important: personality or looks?
  • What is the craziest thing you’ve ever done for someone you had a crush on?
  • What are the three most important things about a relationship?
  • If we spent an entire day together, what would we do?
  • Do you prefer texting or talking on the phone?
  • What things are on your bucket list?

Questions to ask a girl you like

Why is it so hard to talk to a girl you like? Pick her brain with these fun questions to ask a girl you like. 

  • What is your favorite book?
  • What fictional character do you identify the most with? Why?
  • What moment(s) in your life would you love to relive?
  • Do you prefer to be noticed or to blend in?
  • If you could meet any historical person, who would you choose?
  • Are you good at making decisions?
  • How do you want others to see you?
  • What movie could you watch over and over again?
  • Do you prefer being with other people or being alone?
  • What cheers you up when you’re feeling sad?
  • What is the biggest change you’ve ever made?
  • Do you keep a journal?
  • What is the best advice your parents ever gave you?
  • Who was your best friend growing up?
  • What is something you have always wanted to do, but been too afraid to do?
  • Where did you grow up? Did you like it?
  • What is your family like?
  • What is one fear you have?
  • What is your favorite TV show?
  • What is something you get asked often that you wish people would stop asking you?
  • What is something silly that creeps you out?
  • Do you make rash judgements about people or do you get to know them first?
  • What is something you didn’t do that you wish you had?
  • When does time pass quickly for you and when does it pass slowly?
  • What do you wish you knew more about?

Funny questions to ask a girl

Laughing is always a great icebreaker especially when talking to girls. Try out some of these funny questions to ask a girl and see her personality shine through as you laugh together. 

  • If you could have your brain inside a robot and live forever, would you do it? Why or why not?
  • What is your favorite weird smell? Why?
  • If you could choose between being a dog with three legs or a horse with five legs, which would you choose?
  • Someone offers you a million dollars. If you take it, then you have an evil snail following you for the rest of your life. That snail’s only desire is to kill you and that snail cannot be killed. Do you take the million dollars?
  • What weird food combinations do you enjoy?
  • If you were an actress, what kind of movies would you star in?
  • If you could pull hotdogs out of your belly button, how much would you charge people for them?
  • What is something that you believed for a really long time that you should have realized wasn’t true?
  • What is the worst pickup line you’ve ever heard?
  • What is the weirdest thing you’ve ever had on a sandwich?
  • What is the funniest conversation you have ever overheard?
  • Would you punch me in the face for $1,000?
  • If you were reincarnated, what would you come back as?
  • What cartoon do you still like to watch?
  • What was your most embarrassing moment?
  • If you could hang out with one member of the Avengers, who would you choose?
  • If I had horrible body-odor, would you tell me?
  • If you had to choose between looking like a fish or smelling like a fish, which would you choose?
  • What would people hear if they could read your mind?
  • Tell me your favorite joke.
  • What animated character do you have a crush on?
  • Would you rather drink a gallon of ketchup or a gallon of pickle juice?
  • Which would you choose: being incredibly beautiful or insanely smart?
  • If you were a mad scientist, what would you invent?
  • What mythical creature would you want to follow you around and protect you?

Random Questions to ask a girl

Would you rather be a giraffe or a koala bear? What the what?! Yep, these fun random questions to ask a girl is the perfect way to connect to make her really laugh, open up and share random facts she likes with you. 

  • What is the strangest fear that you have?
  • What is the craziest argument you’ve ever had?
  • If money was no obstacle, what is one thing you would purchase?
  • What is something that you are bad at?
  • What is something that you are especially good at?
  • What do you find most annoying?
  • Do you prefer sweet or savory foods?
  • Would you rather go a day without your phone or a day without toilet paper?
  • Would you ever go on a reality TV show?
  • What is the worst fight you’ve ever been in?
  • If you could choose between flying or being able to hold your breath under water, which would you choose?
  • Do you ever remember your dreams?
  • What’s the worst sounding word?
  • If money was no object, what would your dream job be?
  • What would you do if you won a million dollars?
  • Would you rather be a cartoon character or a character in a silent film?
  • How would you survive the apocalypse?
  • Are you more of an early bird or a night owl?
  • What foreign country would you love to visit?
  • Do you like your name?
  • What was the craziest thing you ever got grounded for?
  • What would be the greatest superpower?
  • What is the weirdest thing a stranger has ever said to you?
  • What would be your weapon of choice against a group of zombies?
  • Would you rather have an invisible neck or leave a trail of cheetos wherever you go?

Romantic Questions to ask a girl

Let’s face it, even girls in highschool are all about the romance. And not the inappropriate kind either. They love the chocolates and the flowers and the guy opening the door for her. So these romantic questions to ask a girl can help you understand her love language a little bit more. 

  • What is your favorite flower?
  • What is your favorite candy bar?
  • Do you prefer dinner and a movie or a walk in the park?
  • What is the best date you’ve ever been on?
  • What is your favorite restaurant?
  • Would you like it if I cooked you dinner?
  • Do you want to get married someday?
  • How long was your longest relationship?
  • What are your life goals?
  • Who do you look up to?
  • Do we spend enough time together?
  • When was your first kiss?
  • Do you ever think about your future wedding? What is it like?
  • Who was your first crush?
  • What was your favorite date we’ve gone on?
  • How do you like to celebrate special occasions?
  • What would be your perfect Valentine’s Day?
  • Do you prefer sunrises or sunsets?
  • What is the best way to wake up?
  • Do you like giving or receiving gifts better?
  • What makes you feel loved?
  • What do you daydream about?
  • Do you like to plan dates or would you prefer I plan them?
  • What is the best part of a relationship?
  • Do you like foot rubs? 

Deep Questions to ask a girl

Who doesn’t love a question that really makes them think? These questions are wonderful because they do require some consideration and they really allow you to see into the mind of the girl you are interested in. 

  • What is the biggest lesson you’ve learned in your life?
  • Who has had the biggest impact on your life? Why?
  • What are you proud of that others may think is silly?
  • What are you most passionate about?
  • What do you love most about yourself?
  • What are some of your favorite family traditions?
  • What is the first memory that you have?
  • What is your favorite part of being a teenager?
  • What are you most grateful for?
  • What do you wish you knew when you were younger?
  • What is the last random act of kindness that you witnessed?
  • If you could solve one problem in the world, what problem would you want to solve?
  • If you could tell your past self one thing, what would it be?
  • What are your weaknesses?
  • What are your strengths?
  • Who are the most important people in your life?
  • Do you forgive others easily?
  • What is your biggest regret?
  • What do you want to do after high school?
  • Do you picture yourself having children one day?
  • If you could live anywhere in the world, where would you choose?
  • Are you a “glass is half full” or a “glass is half empty” kind of person?
  • What makes you happiest?
  • What would you do if you were given only a few months to live?
  • What does being a good person mean to you?

What questions would you add to this list? Tell us in the comments!

For more conversation starters, check these out!

Questions to Ask a Guy

Conversation Starters Over Text

Valentine’s Pick-up Lines

This-or-that Questions

Hilarious Would You Rather Questions

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