270 Best This or That Questions for Couples

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Are you looking for something to liven up your next date night? These This or That questions for couples are just what you need to get to know each other better. Grab your list of this or that questions for couples by downloading, printing, and playing in no time.

This or That Questions for Couples

Date nights provide an opportunity to get to know one another better and grow closer together. Couples This or That is a spin on the traditional This or That game. It brings your relationship front and center with a fun and simple game that any couple can play, regardless of how long you have been together.

While planning date night, think about adding some Couples Journal Prompts or playing Couples Would You Rather Questions and Couples Never Have I Ever Questions as well. There are lots of fun games that can help you deepen your connection with your partner.

Bring some laughter and good times to your next date night while learning more as you play!

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Why I Love This or That Questions for Couples

I don’t know about you, but I am always in search of a fun game that my husband and I can play on date nights. Games that allow us to get to know each other better will enable us to spend time looking at and talking to each other rather than on our phones.

This is why This or That games are a perfect fit for date nights. More than just a Would You Rather game; they often lead to natural discussions of why you would prefer one thing over another.

This game is also great for posting on your Instagram stories or other social media accounts so your friends can play too! Don’t forget to tag us @micheletripple so we can play along too!

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How To Play This or That for Couples

Couple’s This or That is easy to get started. Of course, this game is best played as a couple. However, you could play independently and write down your answers for your partner. This is also a great game to play on a double date with another couple!

Regardless of how you decide to get started, there are many ways to play the game! Remember to print your this or that questions first!

Version 1

One way to play is to have each of you circle your answers first. Once you have decided on your answers for each question, you can discuss why you made each selection.

Version 2

Another way to play is to have one of you read off each This or That question. Then, take turns answering what you would pick and talk about why you chose that answer.

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This or That Couples Questions

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Movies or books?
Netflix or Hulu?
Sushi or pizza?
F.R.I.E.N.D.S. or Seinfeld?
Reality shows or documentaries?

Board games or card games?
Singing or dancing?
Bath or shower?
In-n-Out Burger or Shake Shack?
Outdoor grilling meal or indoor BBQ?

Coffee or tea?
Long hair, natural curls, or all straight?
Clean the kitchen in the morning or at night?
Messy or tidy?
Painful truth or comforting lie?

A phone call or text message?
Instagram or Facebook?
TikTok or YouTube?
Photos or videos?
No TV or no social media?

Eat-in bed, or food banished from bed?
Sweet or savory?
Movie or TV Show?
Phone in the bathroom or no phone in the bathroom?
Sleep on the back/front or sleep on the side?

Sleep with a slit of light or sleep in complete darkness?
Socks or slippers?
Laptop or Desktop?
Slot machines or lotto tickets?
Baseball or football?

Grocery pickup or shop in-store?
Zip-up hoodie or pull-over hoodie?
Sauce on the side or sauce on top?
Take-away or meal in a restaurant?
Split the bill or take turns paying?

Share food or each have your own food?
Clean up as you cook or clean up at the end?
Thin crust or thick crust on pizza?
Sweet or savory?
Fruit or veggie?

Pepsi or Coke?
Dark chocolate or white chocolate?
Sausage or bacon?
One long vacation or a bunch of weekend getaways?
Tacos or burritos?

Lake or ocean?
3 day weekend every weekend or one full week off a month?
Dress up or dress down?
Mcdonald’s or Burger King?
Cash or card?

Smoothies or milkshakes?
Muffins or cupcakes?
Car or Truck?
Hot drinks or cold drinks?
Wine or cocktails?

Pub or bar?
Summer or winter?
Morning or night?
Snowball fight or sledding?
Run or gym?

Weights or cardio?
Countryside or city?
Beach or mountains?
Sunset or sunrise?
Hogwarts or Narnia?

Shopping spree or road trip?
Fries or chips?
Swim in the pool or swim in the sea?
Short hair or long hair?
Straight hair or curly hair?

Piercings or tattoos?
Marvel or DC?
Lend money or borrow money?
Growth or security?
Money or love?

Marriage or career?
Make lots of money or make a huge impact on the world?
Career or travel?
Brunch or dessert?
Cake or ice cream?

Hire a chef or house cleaner?
Drama or Comedy movie?
See the future or change the past?
Be financially bankrupt or emotionally bankrupt?
Be skilled or popular?

Smart or sporty?
Snowball fight or water balloon fight?
Being too hot or too cold?
Ice cream or ice lolly?
Ice cream in a cone or in a cup?

Fake Christmas tree or real Christmas tree?
Newspaper or online news?
Computer games or video games?
Bad breath or body odor?
Coughing or sneezing?

Being crazy tall or crazy short?
Live music or live comedy?
Online shopping or in-store shopping?
Flat-mates or live alone?
Working as a team or working alone?

Volunteer at a nursery or a retirement home?
Have the ability to talk to animals or become an animal?
Cats or dogs?
Adopt a puppy or adopt a baby?
Children or no children?

Dream car or dream wedding?
Big family or small family?
Stay-at-home parent or breadwinner?
Fireplace or fire pit?
Planned trips or spontaneous trips?

Vacation or staycation?
Weekends or holidays?
Night in or night out?
Cruise or travel by plane?
Train or bus?

Convertible or minivan?
Work in the office or work from home?
Finish work early or start work late?
Theme park or water park?
Zoo or aquarium?

Mini golf or bowling?
Christmas or birthdays?
New Year’s Eve or Valentine’s Day?
Experiences or physical presents?
Cute card or funny card?

Diet soda or regular soda?
Mild or spicy?
Sweet candy or sour candy?
Lunch or dinner?
Breakfast or no breakfast?

Happy songs or sad songs?
Save money or spend money?
Modern or antique?
Introvert or extrovert?
Give or receive?

Play it safe or take risks?
Skydive or bungee jump?
Lose the ability to see or to hear?
Be invisible or able to read minds?
Be a hero or a villain?

Be born in the future or the past?
Have an adult’s mind in a child’s body or a child’s mind in an adult’s body?
Be famous or an average person?
Famous online or in real life?
Money or free time?

Cremation or burial?
Personal chef or personal trainer?
Change personality or change looks?
Bar soap or body wash?
Have perfect teeth or perfect hair?

Be friend-zoned or ghosted?
Cuddle in the morning or cuddle at night?
Love Island or The Circle?
Be able to change the future or the past?
Have a major pay rise or move to the place of your dreams?

More money or more time?
Personally fulfilled or really professionally fulfilled?
Be really beautiful or really smart?
Be infamous or unknown?
Christmas or Thanksgiving?

Plant-based diet or Meat-inclusive diet?
Takeaways or home-cooked meals?
Picnic or fancy restaurant?
Chocolate or wine?
Lobster or crabs?

Exotic foods or McDonald’s meals?
Opera or movie night?
Raw squid or live fish?
Play twister or watch a movie?
Split the bill or pay for the meals?

Revealing dress or business look on a first date?
Fancy anniversary meal at a restaurant or romantic dinner for two at home?
Beach or mountain?
Disney World or zoo?
Merry-go-round or rollercoaster?

Bus or subway?
Gifts or quality time?
Eyes or smile?
Board game or video game?
Pizza and beer or seafood and wine?

Coffee date or ice cream date?
Planned date or spontaneous?
Double date with friends or just the two of you?
Love or money?
Laser tag or mini-golf?

Sense of humor or street smart?
Long-distance or break up?
Dishes or Laundry?
Road Trip or fly somewhere?
Chill vacay or full of activities?

All-inclusive or DIY?
Water activities or land?
Hotel or Airbnb?
Famous restaurant or hole in the wall?
Submarine cruise or skydiving?

Shark cage diving or sailing?
Travel agent or book yourself?
Two weeks or a weekend trip?
Slow travel or fast travel?
Europe or South America?

T-shirt or button down?
Bedroom light on or off?
A state-of-the-art SUV or a classic convertible sports car?
Walk along the beach or get driven in a rickshaw?
Roundtrip with besties or with a new boyfriend?

Snorkel with sharks or go whale watching?
Hitch-hike or change your flat tire?
Concert or movies?
All-expenses paid holiday to Bali or a year’s worth of groceries?
At a bar for drinks or a meal at a new restaurant?

Beach or garden wedding?
Donate money to charity or be a volunteer?
Star Wars or Star Trek?
Pet fish or pet cat?
Pet bunny or pet dog?

Candle-lit dinner or dancing?
Talk to a magical fish or rather talk to a magical mushroom?
Work less and earn the same or work more and earn a bit more?
Be with someone who loves animals or someone who doesn’t?
Netflix & Chill or Movie Theater Date?

Tennis shoes or sandals?
Country life or city life?
Horror or rom-com movie?
Lace or flannel?
Massage or cuddle time?

Funny or romantic?
Disney World or Universal?
Zombie apocalypse or The Purge?
Star in a horror movie or reality TV show?
Have dial-up internet or a flip phone?

Batman or Superman?
Truth or Dare?
Right or Left side of the bed?
Keeping Up With The Kardashians or Big Brother?
Stand up comedy or poetry slam?

Sky diving or parasailing?
Chocolate or roses?
Taller or shorter?
Shave your legs or arms?
Never wear deodorant or never shave?

Romantic dinner or adventurous date?
Never get married or marry your ex?
Boxers or briefs?
Buttered popcorn or caramel popcorn?
Fly to the moon or visit the depths of the ocean?

Be attacked by a lion or a shark?
Spend $5000 or save $5000?
Visit Europe or South East Asia?
Be super intelligent or gifted in sports?
Kiss every day or a hug every day?

Exercise together or watch a movie together?
Clingy or jealous partner?
Have a fun date or be given an expensive gift?
Elope or have a wedding?
Be a leader or a follower?

Diamonds or pearls?
Peace of mind or unlimited wealth for yourself?
End homelessness or domestic violence?
Deep sea or outer space?
Artist or an athlete?

A good singer or a good dancer?
Big city or a small town?
Public or private proposal?
Huge wedding or just get a marriage license?
Movie or live music?

Beach or ocean?
Business class or private plane?
Have a photographic memory or perfect pitch?
A long walk in nature or cuddle up on your favorite couch?
Sunset on a sandy beach or in the beautiful mountains?

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Michele Tripple

Michele Tripple is a renowned author and expert in the fields of parenting, relationships, and personal development. With her degree in marriage and family studies, her experience as a Family Life Educator, and over a decade of experience as a professional writer, Michele has authored books that provide practical advice and insights into improving family dynamics and personal growth. Her work is celebrated for its blend of research-driven information and relatable, real-world applications. Michele has been a keynote speaker at conferences and has contributed to numerous publications and media outlets, solidifying her reputation as an authoritative voice in her field and helping families build relationships.