Making your marriage a priority with kids is hard! It takes more effort and planning. With these 5 tips, it can help you make your marriage a priority.
5 Ways You Can Make Your Marriage a Priority with Kids
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It’s funny how the point of getting married is building a family together and having kids, but yet it can be so hard to nurture the main relationship with your spouse after kids are involved. It’s what we want and how we picture our lives, it can just be difficult to make your marriage a priority with so many to-dos in our busy lives. Here are some ways to make your marriage a priority even when you have kids.
Teach Your Children that You Value Your Marriage
Kids are little sponges that soak up so much information from everyone and everything around them. If you take the time to not only tell your kids about how important you feel your marriage and spouse is to you, but also show them, it will help them understand and respect your relationship. Have date nights with your spouse. Show affection to one another. Hold hands, hug, and maybe even squeeze some kisses in. It also sets a great example as to how they should love and treat their future spouse.
Make Bedtime Happen
I’m mostly talking about bedtimes for your children. Make their bedtime early enough so that you and your spouse can spend time together, just the two of you, in the evenings. I also like to have somewhat of a bedtime routine for my husband and I as well. Regroup. Recuperate. Check in with each other. It’s important to be on the same page and to reconnect at the end of the day. We like to do an activity together like watching a movie or just have a chat over some dessert without interruptions and then get ready for bed at the same time. Going to bed at the same time is also a great time for cuddling.
Communicate Often
It’s also important to be on the same page with what is happening throughout the week with each other and the kids with activities and meetings. Marriage is all about teamwork and communicating the needs of everyone is really the key to help with having a functional marriage and family.
Make Your Spouse Feel Good
Be thoughtful. Write them notes, let them know you are thinking about them. Try and
Be thankful for your spouse and try to look for the positive things your spouse does. Everyone has things they do that drive other people nuts. If this happens, assume the best and that their intentions were good.
Say No To Some Things
Be okay with saying “no” to events and different things that can take time away time from your spouse. It can range from watching a television show that only you are interested in to not going to hang out with friends that you have seen several times in the last few weeks.
It’s okay to let some things go. Talking with your spouse and deciding what activities you can spend less time on or maybe even put some things off for later to get some extra time with one another in.
It’s time to make your marriage a priority! What are you going to start doing today with your spouse?
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Shiree is my other half. She calls herself boring, but she is far from it! She lives in Kansas City with her husband and her 4 kids ages 7, 5, 2, and 1! She really is super mom as she spends hours working on the blog and finding a way to still take care of her kids effortlessly! Shiree was married young and started a family right away. She jokes all the time that nothing could have prepared her for motherhood other than motherhood!
After becoming a mom she decided to get as much knowledge as she could about raising kids and strengthening families so she decided to go to college. She obtained her degree in Marriage and Family studies and is now a Family Life Educator. She has a desire to pay it forward and help other parents raise kids and strengthen their families.
Such great advice. It really does come back to doing the smaller things that can make a big difference. I am a HUGE believer in bedtime.
That bedtimes one…so true!! It’s a soul saver!!! Even if your husband isn’t home, it’s a nice time for the peace and quiet!! 🤣💕
Yes! Being able to wind down after a long day really is refreshing!
These are all great ideas! I’ve noticed that having night time with my husband makes a huge difference in my mood!!!
I need to do better with putting the kids to bed early, those late extra hours to talk and just have alone time is so needed! Thanks for sharing these tips
Great ideas!